It is a sunny Friday; half the working population of The Netherlands has the day off. I board the train with ease. Potential Bestfriend is in the cabin. We nod and smile at each other. We ride the same train every morning. We have come a long way, from eye contact, to nods, and now toothed smiles.
The seats are arranged in clusters of four, two sets of seats facing each other. I choose a cluster diagonally opposite from Potential Bestfriend. I sit by the window so I can look at life along the way, and then I create an island. I toss my coat on the seats opposite me and drop my bag on the seat beside me. I litter my island with my iPad, BlackBerry, earphones, and two books. Sometime on this journey, each will receive my attention.
More people enter the cabin.
“Mevrouw?” The man looks at my bag and then me, a universal sign language.
I scan the cabin. There are other seats available, I tell him with my eyes. He waits. I make a big production of putting my iPad, BlackBerry, earphones, and two books in my bag. I flash him an apologetic smile that means, the two seats opposite me are empty, can’t you sit there? He meets my smile with his—if you want your personal space, go buy your own train.
I keep my cool. These are the people that the preacher talked about, turn the other cheek; turn the other cheek.
The ride from Den Haag to Leiden is twelve minutes. Regular Joe fusses and fumbles, and twists and bends to make himself and his enormous rucksack comfortable. His shoulder grazes mine. His elbow jabs me and His hips brush against mine.
These are the people that the preacher talked about, turn the other cheek; turn the other cheek.
He moves his enormous rucksack several times in an attempt to balance it. Heaven alone knows what’s in it. The rough edge bumps my leg and tugs at my pantyhose. I shift my leg. I open my mouth and then close it.
These are the people that the preacher talked about, turn the other cheek; turn the other cheek.
“Station Leiden,” the announcement comes through the loudspeakers.
The cabin fills up. Young Generation approaches my cluster. He looks at me and I nod. He folds my coat before he takes the window seat directly opposite me. He isolates himself from the world with his Beats by Dr Dre headphones.
Regular Joe digs around in his enormous rucksack. Like a magician on stage, voilà, he produces a banana. He eats it while my empty stomach convulses. The Conjuror aka Regular Joe dips his hands in his rucksack again. Out comes a boiled egg. He cracks the eggshell against the armrest and peels it. He leans over me, brushing against me, to reach the small dustbin under the window. I get ready to push him to outer space, but stop.
These are the people that the preacher talked about, turn the other cheek; turn the other cheek.
The combination of boiled egg and banana is too much for me. A fart escapes before I can hold it in and release it slowly so it will not smell. Regular Joe sniffs like an Alsatian guard dog and wrinkles his nose. I look at Young Generation and speak his language. I roll my eyes the way my son rolled his eyes at the Converse shop after he picked a red pair of All Stars and I suggested a neutral black. Young generation winks at me, and smiles knowingly at Regular Joe. Oh yes, this fart will not be attributed to me.
A belch, a wipe of his mouth with the back of his hands, and then the Conjuror dips his hands in his enormous rucksack yet again. Voilà, strawberry yogurt! He twists the cap open and sucks. It is an angry sound, payback sound. He kicks my left foot. His apology is unconvincing. The last time I slapped someone, my hand hurt for days. I am ready to take another chance.
These are the people that the preacher talked about, turn the other cheek; turn the other cheek.
“Dames en heren, over enkele minuten: station Amsterdam-Schiphol.”
I sigh in relief. With a rucksack as big as Texas, Regular Joe must be heading for Outer Mongolia. But, he does not get off the train; rather he takes advantage of the empty seat in front of him and stretches his leg. Hands clasped on stomach, he dozes and snores softly.
These are the people that the preacher talked about, turn the other cheek; turn the other cheek.
We approach Amsterdam Zuid, a busy commercial hub. Most travellers exit here. Does Regular Joe have a job? Maybe at a smoothie factory—think banana, boiled egg, and strawberry yogurt. Before I finish debating whether to wake him up, he opens his eyes, looks at the display monitor, and turns to his left side, brushing my hips, again.
These are the people that the preacher talked about, turn the other cheek; turn the other cheek.
Young Generation waves goodbye.
The cabin is almost empty. In seven minutes, we will arrive at Duivendrecht. Flinging my bag on my shoulder, I consider kicking the rucksack, since Regular Joe is drooling in his sleep. I do not. Instead, I attempt to cross the Himalayas mountain range.
By an act of divine intervention, I find myself on the aisle. Potential Bestfriend smiles as we make our way to the doors. At Duivendrecht, she takes the escalator to the metro stop, while I take the steps to platform eight.
I reflect on the forty-two minute train ride. The selfishness of Regular Joe—how dare he sit next to me and what about the human heads buried in his enormous rucksack? The banana, boiled egg, and strawberry yogurt combo he designed to provoke a fart and embarrass me. His dozing drool, his irritating snore, and his constant attempt to tap current, the nincompoop, he stretched my tolerance level, but I prevailed.
As I congratulate myself, I see a hungry and tired young man who boarded a train seeking food, rest, and relief. I realize with horror, I am the person that the preacher talked about. Quick, turn the other cheek; turn the other cheek!
So, what’s your tolerance meter reading these days? Share, I promise not to judge…
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I just can’t think of any other action than a dirty slap on hiss God forsaken anus and a deep blow to his nostries. Your tolerance level was really over stretched and unlike others, I must confess. You have patient
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Ah Daniel, if we live and let live, the world would be a better place right? Quick, turn the other cheek, turn the other cheek! 🙂
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I think I’m hooked! Love your descriptions… you certainly paint pictures with your words and took us on this journey with you. Awesome way to drive your message home too.
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Thank you for riding with me and for the compliment. I enjoy your writing too, expect my footprints all over your blog!
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It wasn’t until I got to the end that I got the message hidden beautifully well in the post…
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Now you know my secret! Quick, turn the other cheek; turn the other cheek! 🙂
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*chuckling*…Boy!am I grateful for reality checks?…keeps us in line.
I loved the use of emphasis,humor,details and pictures from what I would like to think of as your mind’s eye ….
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Reality checks just when we think we’re standing abi?
Thank you Lizzieebunoluwa.
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This is a remarkable and ingenious piece of writing. While those of us who ride public transportation will have a special appreciation for it, we all need to calibrate our tolerance meters more often. Your repeated refrain “These are the people the preacher talked about…” is doubly effective because it works here and it will stay in my mind when I need it most. Thank you…
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Thank you Julia! I’m tuning my meter as I write 🙂 if I adjust it constantly as you say, my train rides are more bearable 🙂 I’m glad the refrain is helpful…
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Awesome piece of written art.
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Thank you Masoma. Thanks for reading, glad you enjoyed it 🙂
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Oh dear! I’m probably the one the preacher is always talking about 😦
(Today’s food for thought)
On a lighter note. The fact that maybe he worked in a smoothie factory,…banana, boiled egg and strawberry yogurt, was hilarious 😀
And that fart, I think we could all smell it…lol.
Well done as usual!
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Thank you Afi! Me and you both- the preacher is always talking about us 🙂
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Brilliant!
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Thanks Ihunda!
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great piece, you took me on the journey…could almost smell the “fart”..lol,….would have kicked regular Joe and started a brawl
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Thank you Peter. Lol@ could almost smell the fart 🙂 & would have kicked Regular Joe… you’ve got me in stitches! It’s a good thing that we don’t meet Regular Joe everyday 🙂
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Wow! Timi, what a ride with Regular Joe and some patience you’ve got. Can’t stand such attitude that long. I would have been highly irritated and relocate fast.
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Nnenna lol! I wonder what he thought of me? And if he has a blog, how he would describe me 🙂 I wasn’t altogether very nice was I?
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I really was entertained by your creativity, more inks to ur artistic pen!
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Thank you Nnenna for stopping by. I’m glad you enjoyed reading the post 🙂
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Love this! 🙂
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Anita, me too! thank you!
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Lol the fart got me into a laughing/coughing fit. Omg that was good. I could almost smell the guy.
Tolerance meters. Hmmm mine used to be a minus 8 but its more like a 5. I think. I’m a work in progress. 😉
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Elaine, lol@ I could almost smell the guy! I’m with you on tolerance meters; I’m also a work in progress. After my day in tolerance, I’m slowly beginning to like what I see in the mirror 🙂
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